What to do when “new girl” is seeing other guys?

In picking up women, the absolute most important part is your initial approach. Your approach sets the stage for the entire rest of your encounter with her. In fact, your approach is the single most significant factor of whether or not you will be ultimately successful. This is where PUA openers can work magic. A PA opener is more than just a pickup line.

I can’t speak for all the other guys on-staff, but at least for me, what I talk about is probably 80% natural, 20% PUA, all jumbled up together and put through a “how to .

The seduction community itself originated with Ross Jeffries and his students. In the late s, Jeffries taught workshops, promoted a collection of neuro-linguistic programming NLP techniques called “speed seduction” SS , and published a short book of his techniques, How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed. In , Lewis De Payne, then a student of Jeffries, founded the newsgroup alt. The community was brought to greater mainstream awareness with the drama film Magnolia , in which Tom Cruise portrayed a charismatic yet embittered and emotionally troubled pickup guru who was loosely modeled on Ross Jeffries.

The Game reached the New York Times Bestseller List , and made known pickup and seduction techniques to a wider audience. Within the community, seduction lairs are underground meeting groups for men devoted to the study of seduction as it is taught in the seduction community. Lairs first began as study groups soon after Ross Jeffries released his first products and began teaching sometime in the early 90s.

These elements are used as resources for men who want to learn to become well-versed in how to successfully attract women. For example, they reject the notion that men should attempt to woo women by spending money on them e. Many members of the seduction community work on their “game” seduction skills by improving their understanding of psychology, their confidence and self-esteem termed “inner game” , and their social skills and physical appearance physical fitness, fashion sense, grooming “outer game”.

Many members of the community believe that one’s “game” is refined through regular practice, with the idea that the abilities needed to interact in this way with women can be improved. The seduction community has a unique set of acronyms and jargon for describing male—female dynamics and social interaction. The community claims that these concepts derive from scientific disciplines, such as the concept of social proof from the psychology of influence , and various concepts from sociobiology and evolutionary psychology such as the term ” alpha male “.